I had a discussion the other day that got me thinking. We were talking about how things ‘used to be.’ You know, like decades ago (and further back in history) when folks understood the importance of YOUR WORD.
For example, when you said you’d do something, YOU DID IT! You kept your word.
Sounds so basic and simple, right?
Guess what…………..That concept has become SO complicated!
For example, have you ever had a repairperson PROMISE to do work for you (even wrote up a contract) only to discover that they ‘didn’t deliver’ or worse still ‘took the money and ran?’
I've experienced this so many times and yet each time I am shocked and saddened anew.
How about politicians who talk a big game during their campaign only to renege on their promises?
And let's not forget………Big pharma, agro-farms, GMOs and on and on!
For me, this behavior is SO disappointing and disheartening. Seriously, I could weep when I think of people treating people in this manner.
This 'not keeping your word' behavior happens in the contractor world, but it also happens with regularity in our government, in the business industry and in our relationships.
Have you read the book, ‘The Four Agreements’ by Don Miguel Ruiz? One of the agreements is ‘Be impeccable with your word.’
So what does THAT mean? Among other things, it means to always be truthful. It means to do as you say you’ll do. The Brethren say, “Yes means yes and no means no.’ Ahhhhhh, this is SO beautiful.
If you have been less than impeccable with YOUR word, CHANGE THAT IMMEDIATELY! If you've been dishonest with someone, tell them your truth now. If you have had dealings with folks who operate in this way, go the extra step to let them know of your disappointment (if necessary write a letter, contact your local better business bureau, etc).
We all MUST start treating one another with integrity and respect. Let us all choose to be impeccable with our word!