Okay, so we’re not Amish, but we DO subscribe to the ‘work first,
play later’ mentality. If you were
a fly on our wall you’d hear me say, “Have you done your chores?” about 37
times on any given day. Because
the young ones are still in training, this prompt is necessary (less so for
Maeve’s age). What’s also required
is for me to make sure each chore has been done and done well.
But let’s back it up a bit……………Once a month or so, we hold a
family meeting to re-choose chores.
We go around the circle and each child is allowed to choose one or two
chores of their choice. After
that, I add on a few more depending on their age. I write down each child’s chore list and put them all on the
fridge so that the children can reference them when needed.
Plain and simple, teaching your children to do chores builds character, self
esteem, develops the will and nurtures a helping heart.
These qualities will serve children SO WELL as they move
through their childhood and on into adulthood.
at what age maria, did you start giving your little ones a chore?
ReplyDeleteI'd say about 5 years old. Before then, they can 'help' alongside a parent or a sibling.
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