Thursday, January 23, 2014

No Hitting!


Question:  HELP! Any useful tips for hitting or I should say stopping hitting? Elliana gets frustrated when I pick her up sometimes and flips her body around then smacks me right in the face! I tell her that hitting is not allowed and that we don't do it and it hurts. She has been doing it for weeks now and its getting REALLY frustrating. Did you ever encounter this?


Answer:   Yes! Of course! No worries!  It's a stage and can be the result of the child being tired, frustrated, too stimulated, etc. I always use a firm voice and a serious face and say "No hitting." I'd advise you not to go into an explanation. If possible put her down and busy yourself with something else. As soon as she approaches you or is happy about something reward this behavior with your attention and your smile.


1 comment:

  1. Maria- NO JOKE! I did your method with her last night and it worked instantly! Not only did she know what she did was wrong, when she was ready i opened up my arms and she came running to me to be held. (which, by the way, she NEVER does) Thank you thank you thank you! xoxo

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